I’ve been snowed under with stuff lately. It’s been hard to focus on any of my projects besides the day to day grind and other major things I’ve committed myself to. I don’t like it.

I think everyone needs days where absolutely nothing is planned. Where you can choose to accomplish things or do nothing at all. It’s a way to wipe the slate clean in a way. Sort of like when we sleep.

I’ve started to feel overwhelmed recently. Like I’m getting too much on my plate that doesn’t necessarily fulfill me as a person. That’s a scary place to be. Life is too short to feel that way.

So what should I (or anyone) do about that. The first thing to do is cut away days of busyness from the schedule where I/you can. If I’m not 100% looking forward to doing something that isn’t a necessity, I shouldn’t be doing it. Pretty straight forward. Another part of that is to be honest about commitments that are draining you. The ones that just don’t add anything positive to your life. Because who needs that? Those things are often the hardest things to stop doing, but the weight that gets lifted off your shoulders when you let go of those things is amazing.

So take time to assess the busyness in your life and ask yourself if it’s worth it to be so busy. You might find that it isn’t.

The Future

36189157_10155580670682227_1016942784180912128_nI’m a nostalgic person. I love looking back at all the great memories of my past, but I’m also obsessed with the future.

Life tends to change for me every year. For example, 2017-2018 has been a time of big changes with the decision to surrender my horse back to the rescue I got him from and finding my heart horse, Kindle. I also started to nanny my best friend’s baby, started to write a book (or two), and began teaching. It’s a lot.

The time is coming for big change again. My boys are about to both be in school full days, which will be the first time I’ve been on my own during the weekdays since having the kids. That alone is going to be a big adjustment. On top of that I wont be watching my friend’s little girl anymore. That has been a tough one because I love this little girl, but her mom and I agreed that I’d watch her for a year and that year is almost up. They are working on another arrangement for her, but it isn’t easy. Part of me wanted to say “Sure, I’ll watch her for the next few years until she’s old enough for pre-school/kindergarten!” but I never aspired to be a nanny. Sure it’s been fine, but I am at the point where I’ve done my time raising little ones and I want to enjoy some freedom again. Can’t do that when you’re caring for a toddler. So my friends are forced to come up with another nanny or my friend possibly has to decide to leave her job and be a stay-at-home mom (which is what I did when the boys were babies). It’s tough to sit back and let them work it out, but it’s necessary. I have a lot of things I’d like to accomplish when I don’t have the boys around the house this year during school. I want to improve my YouTube channel and blog more and be able to see equine massage clients on the weekdays instead of weekends. My husband and I are also anxious to have our Fridays together again since he has Fridays off.

Change is good. Sometimes it just takes longer to adjust to the change.


Easy (Meatless) Burrito Bowls


Let me begin by saying that I love meat. I understand why some people choose to be vegetarian, but I personally need meat in my life. However, sometimes I need something light and healthy that doesn’t feature meat. That being said, I present one of my family’s new favorite meals. The Meatless Burrito Bowl.

This is an easy and relatively healthy dinner that takes almost no time to prep and put together. An added bonus is that it only costs about $20 to feed 4 people (I accidentally said that it costs more like $25 to make in the video. OOPS). Obviously you can make this for even less if you ditch the cheese and maybe make your own salsa and rice. I paid a little extra for convenience, but $20 to feed a family of four these days is definitely on the cheaper side, especially for a healthier dish.


Here’s what you’ll need:

2 pouches ready rice (or 90 second rice)

2 small avocados

1 1/2 cups chopped romaine lettuce

1/2 cup finely chopped cilantro

1 lime, cut into wedges

1/2 cup chipotle aeoli

1/2 cup of sour cream

1 cup shredded cheese (I used a Mexican blend)

Black bean and corn salsa

All you have to do is cook the rice as directed. Prep all your produce. Mix together your sauce (chipotle aeoli and sour cream) and add everything together in individual bowls with a squeeze of lime and sprinkle of cilantro. I made a video for you to see how I prep my veggies and put it all together. If you try this recipe, please comment and let me know how you liked it and how you maybe altered it to make it your own. 🙂

Blue Hair and Fourth of July Fun!

I made a big decision recently. That decision was that I was going to dye my hair a fun color for once. No more boring blonde.

I made the mistake of underestimating how much color I needed to cover my whole head, and the beauty supply shop was closed! Thankfully I had some leftover blue hair color from when I did a tiny strip of blue in my bangs a year or so ago,so I have two shades of blue in my hair, but I’m actually liking how it turned out.

This year has been a little different for us because we’re usually in Pagosa Springs camping for the fourth of July. We thought we’d try to change things up and go later this year. Instead of going out and fighting the crowds to see a fireworks display, we opted to stay home and enjoy good food and time with the family.



The “What the Fluff” Challenge

I recently took it upon myself to join the group of people that are seriously confusing their pets with this “magic trick”. Basically you take a large blanket, stand in an entryway, get your pet’s attention, hold up the blanket to cover yourself and then hide behind the wall of the entryway, dropping the blanket and revealing to your pet that you’ve “disappeared”. I love my dogs, but I had to try this.

My youngest dog (Leeloo) was so nervous that I was going to cover her with the blanket that she peaced out before I could even start this illusion. My other two dogs however reacted about as I would have expected. Confused, and in my dog Rock-it’s case, a little upset.

Time-lapse Video: Making of a Comic Panel

When I first started drawing, I was just using pen and paper. Now I have a tablet, a stylus pen, and Procreate, which has streamlined my work immensely. I can also do time-lapse videos of my work to show people the process of creating cartoons.

Take a look at one of my recent comics about my dog, Leeloo, and her inability to make decisions.

Creating Your Own Cartoon Character


Drawing by Heather Ledbetter

One of the hardest things to do when you want to create your own comic series is to come up with the character (or characters). The possibilities are endless, which means your journey is often going to be a long one to discover your perfect character design.

To begin, I recommend creating a folder or portfolio of characters that you love from popular cartoons, comic strips, and books. Ask yourself what features draw you to those characters? Is it the way the eyes are drawn, or is it the silly proportions? Start to compile a list of character styles that you enjoy looking at.

Next comes the sketchbook. Start drawing! Compile sketches of different feature combinations like big hands on skinny arms, small eyes set in a big head, realistic versus plain eyes. Doing a variety of combinations will help you start to eliminate the things that don’t work for you.

Once you come up with the basic concept for your character, start doing sketches of the character in different poses and positions. When drawing a comic you have to be able to give your character some amount of movement and expression, so practice creating movement and different angles of your character.

When you’re confident in your ability to “animate” your character, you can start doing the detail work. Smooth out your lines and decide on your final color palette. You can also decide on the environment your character will live in and how much effort you want to put into the surroundings.

Once your character comes to life, the only thing left to do is start telling their story!

Creating Comics

34686097_1313113698821367_4922289330195529728_oLately I’ve been focusing on creating more of my comics. I find that when I think too hard about it, I struggle to come up with content for my cartoons. I’m trying to balance creating illustrative comics for my book and just comics for the fun of it. I think focusing too much on the book illustrations will suck all the fun out of the process. I’m trying to temper fun with serious, nose-to-the-grindstone kind of work.

For kicks and giggles I sent a query letter and some of my work to a publisher in the off chance that it wont be thrown out immediately. Luckily I’m in no hurry to get a publisher, but I have to start somewhere. Worst case scenario is I self-publish. As long as my book gets out there so people can enjoy it, I’ll be happy.

I’ve thought about sending in some of my comic panels for syndication, but I need to do some grooming with those if I want to stand a chance at that happening. Illustrative comics that tell a story are different than your Sunday newspaper type comic panels. There should be solid characters and or a specific theme, like political or sports comic artists. Thanks to the internet though, many artists have an equal chance to get their stuff out there, even if it doesn’t follow the old school guidelines for syndication through a traditional publisher. You can create a website or use social media to get your work seen. A lot of self-made greatness is possible thanks to technology.


First Show of the Season: Going for a Buckle (Also I fell off my horse)


I had a fun time this past weekend at the first English and Western Pleasure horse show of the season. My mare did pretty well for her first go, winning a 5th and 6th place ribbon in an English Pleasure and Equitation class. I need to make some adjustments and work on conditioning her to maintain a canter, but hey! Placing at all among tough competition at her first show was awesome!


Now for the less than positive part of our day. There is a trail/obstacle course that you can ride for extra points and as a tie breaker in the buckle series. I thought we would have a few issues, but overall I thought my horse was ready for the obstacles. I was incorrect.

I should have known it wasn’t going to go well when she refused the rope gate (which I had been working with her on gates, but this gate was different to her), so I finally moved on to the next obstacle. She struggled with that. So I moved to the third obstacle. She was ok, but not great. Then it came to the fourth obstacle which was backing through three cones in a “zigzag” pattern. I thought she would be able to handle that since we had been backing a lot and she was ok with it. She started to dance around when I asked her to back around the first cone, so I tried to work with her and get her to understand what I was asking her to do. After only a few seconds or so of me trying to get her through the obstacle, she worked herself into a tizzy and before I knew what hit me she reared up and almost over backwards and I fell off of her. Thankfully I was well out of the way and was unhurt, but still! Holy crap!

I got up, grabbed the reins and told the judge she didn’t seem to be in a good head space for that today and we’d try again at next months show. I walked her to the mounting block, got back on her and we waited quietly for the next class to start. No one besides the judge and his assistant saw the incident, and my friends were all mortified when I told them. My horse just stood there, looking like she was asleep and nothing had happened. So needless to say I will be working on obstacles with her so we can at least make it through the next trail class in a month. Don’t really want to get squished.


After the fourth class my mare started to feel like I was lugging around a bag of bricks beneath me. She didn’t have any energy left so she went to the trailer to rest and I took my friend’s horse into the ring for his first ever day of being ridden English. He did great for his first time! The picture above was my first time ever riding him. He’s going to be a fun horse to show this year!